73 Basic Japanese Phrases To Survive Your First Conversation With A Native Speaker
Whether you’re in the early stages of learning Japanese or you’ve been practicing for a while, the thought of having a conversation with a native speaker can be nerve-wracking.
I've been there plenty of times too. So I bet your inner monologue is along these lines:
- Will they understand? What if I say something wrong by accident?
- What do I do if I don’t have the vocab to say what I’m thinking?
These thoughts are perfectly normal reactions to doing something scary in Japanese, like chatting to a native speaker.
Thankfully, you can go into your first conversation armed with a ton of useful basic Japanese phrases.
Check out the rest of this article to learn 73 handy turns of phrase that will serve you well in any Japanese conversation.
These are also great starting points if you’re just jumping into Japanese for the first time. These basic Japanese phrases will be the backbone on which you can build your Japanese knowledge.
8 Must-Know Japanese Greetings
When you meet someone for the first time, you tend to start out with pleasantries like “Hello” and “It’s nice to meet you,” right? Japanese is full of basic phrases to start out a conversation. Try some of these on for size next time you meet a new friend:
- #1 Konnichiwa (こんにちは) – Hello
- #2 Ohayou gozaimasu (おはようございます) – Good morning
- #3 Konbanwa (こんにちは) – Good evening
- #4 Moshi moshi (もしもし) – Hello (but only if you’re on the phone or something like Skype)
- #5 Ogenki desu ka? (お元気ですか) – How are you?
- #6 Genki desu (元気です) – I’m good/I’ve been doing well, thanks
- #7 Ohisashiburi desu ne (お久しぶりですね) – Long time no see
- #8 _______–san mo? (______-さんも？) – And you? (Hint: fill in the blank with your friend’s name. This is a great response to things like “How are you?” because you can say, “I’m good! And you?”)
5 Ways To Learn More About Your Conversation Partner
After you’ve greeted your new conversation partner, it’s likely that you’ll need to know more about them. Keep it rolling—you’ve got this.
- #9 Namae wa nan desu ka? (名前は何ですか) – What’s your name?
- #10 Watashi no namae wa _____ desu (私の名前は＿＿です) – My name is ______
- #11 Doko kara kimashita ka? (どこから来ましたか) – Where are you from?
- #12 Watashi wa ______ kara kimashita (私は＿＿から来ました) – I’m from __________.
- #13 Sou desu ka? (そうですか) – Is that so?/Really?/I see (Hint: this is a great thing to say after learning where someone is from, what they do, or other facts about their life.)
7 Essential Japanese Politeness Expressions
You’ve done great so far. You’ve introduced yourself, learned your friend’s name and maybe where they’re from. And now you’re ready to move on to other topics.
First, try out some of these traditional Japanese phrases that are often used early on in conversation, plus some others that are just great to know anytime.
- #14 Arigatou gozaimasu (ありがとうございます) – Thank you
- #15 Douitashimashite (どういたしまして) – You’re welcome
- #16 Sumimasen (すみません) – I’m sorry/excuse me (Hint: you can use this for anything from apologising for stumbling into someone on the train to asking for help or asking for people to move out of your way.)
- #17 Gomen nasai (ごめんなさい) – I’m sorry (Hint: didn’t we already cover “I’m sorry”? Gomen nasai is less “excuse me” and more “I’m truly sorry from the bottom of my heart.” Use it if you knocked something over and broke it, not if you interrupted someone’s stroll to ask for directions.)
- #18 Yoroshiku onegaishimasu (よろしくおねがいします) – I’m in your debt! (Hint: this one isn’t used in its literal sense most of the time; it’s a way to say “thank you” to someone you are counting on or indebted to. For example, if you're starting out at a new job in Japan, you might introduce yourself and then add this at the end. You might also use it if you’ve asked someone a favour, such as to show you around or give you directions.)
- #19 Itadakimasu (いただきます) – Let’s dig in (Hint: say this before meals as a way to politely say you’re going to begin enjoying your food.)
- #20 Gochisousama deshita (ごちそうさまでした) – That was delicious (Hint: say this after meals as a way to say thank you.)
For more on Japanese culture, customs and politeness check out this post.
9 Ways To Get Clarification In A Japanese Conversation
You’ve been puttering along in a conversation for a while now! But what happens if everything you feared takes place and you get confused? First, remember not to panic.
Even in your native language, you probably have to ask people for clarification or to repeat themselves. You won’t offend anyone. Just take it slow, one sentence at a time.
- #21 Eigo te iu no wa… (英語ていうのは) – And in English, that’s…?
- #22 Wakarimasen (わかりません) – I don’t understand
- #23 Shirimasen (知りません) – I don’t know
- #24 Wasuremashita (忘れました) – I forgot
- #25 Motto yukkuri kudasai (もっとゆっくり下さい) – Please go a little slower
- #26 Mou ichido kudasai (もう一度下さい) – Could you say that one more time?
- #27 Nihongo de perapera de wa nai desu (日本語でペラペラではないです) – I’m not very fluent in Japanese (Hint: you’re speaking Japanese already! So you can’t say “I don’t know Japanese at all,” right?)
- #28 ___ te iu no imi wa nan desu ka? (＿＿ていうの意味は何ですか) – What does _____ mean?
- #29 Tetsudatte kuremasen ka? (手伝ってくれませんか) – Can you help me?
6 Can't-Live-Without Japanese Questions
Japanese is one of the easiest languages to ask questions in—so ask away! In order to make a question in Japanese, just add ka to the end of any sentence.
On top of that, though, there are a few question words that will make your conversations go a lot smoother.
- #30 Doko desu ka? (どこですか) – Where is it?
- #31 Itsu desu ka? (いつですか) – When is it?
- #32 Doushite? (どうして) – Why?
- #33 Dochira desu ka? (どちらですか) – Which one is it?
- #34 Nan desu ka? (何ですか) – What is it?
- #35 Dare desu ka? (だれですか) – Who is it?
Getting To Know Each Other In Japanese
Perfect! You’ve been talking with someone for a few minutes now, introducing yourself and asking any questions you need to know. Maybe you’ve found out your speaking partner’s name and you’re walking to a coffee shop together.
Now’s the perfect time to find out more about each other. Try out some of these phrases to open up a whole new avenue of conversation!
- #36 Ima nanji desu ka? (今何時ですか) – What time is it right now?
- #37 Ima (今) – Now
- #38 Ato de (後で) – Later
- #39 Kyou (今日) – Today
- #40 Kinou (昨日) – Yesterday
- #41 Ashita (明日) – Tomorrow
- #42 Mainichi (毎日) – Everyday
- #43 Nansai desu ka? (何歳ですか) – How old are you?
- #44 Doko ni sundeimasu ka? (どこに住んでいますか) – Where do you live?
- #45 Kyoudai ga imasu ka? (兄弟がいますか) – Do you have siblings?
- #46 Ikura desu ka? (いくらですか) – How much does that cost?
- #47 Kore wa nan desu ka? (これはなんですか) – What is this?
- #48 Sore wa nan desu ka? (それはなんですか) – What is that?
- #49 Are we nan desu ka? (あれはなんですか) – What is that? (Hint: Use “kore” when something is close to you, “sore” when something is away from you but close to the person you’re speaking to, and “are” when something is far away from both of you.)
- #50 Toire wa doko desu ka? (トイレはどこですか) – Where’s the toilet?
11 Answers To Common Japanese Questions
You’ve been learning a lot about your new friend, but now the tables have turned—they’re the one asking you questions! How should you respond to many of the most common questions Japanese native speakers might ask you? Try these answers out.
- #51 Hai (はい) – Yes
- #52 Iie (いいえ) – No
- #53 Mada mada (まだまだ) – Not yet
- #54 Kamoshiremasen (かもしれません) – Maybe/I’m not sure
- #55 Tokidoki (時々) – Sometimes
- #56 Zenzen (全然) – Never
- #57 Itsumo (いつも) – Always
- #58 Taitei (たいてい) – Usually
- #59 Watashi wa _____ desu (私は＿＿です) – I’m a _______ (Hint: you can fill this blank with anything you feel describes you. That might be a “student” (gakusei), “tourist” (kankoukyaku), or even “doctor” (isha)!
- #60 Daijoubu desu (大丈夫です) – That’s okay
- #61 Ii desu (いいです) – That’s good
A special note on the difference between daijoubu and ii. If someone is asking you if something is “all right,” daijobu is what fits there (think “We don’t sell that here; can I get you X instead?” to which you’d respond with “yes, that’s all right, I suppose”).
If you approve of something or find it nice, that’s the time for ii (think of your friend saying “Hey, we should go to that sushi place!” and you’re really excited to go there. If your friend suggested sushi but you really wanted ramen instead, that would be a case for just using daijoubu.)
5 Japanese Phrases For Special Occasions
What if you’ve found yourself speaking to a native Japanese person for the first time because you decided to go to a celebration or special event, like a birthday or festival? Here are a few useful phrases for almost any situation you might find yourself in.
- #62 Ki o tsukete (気を付けて) – Be careful (Hint: you might say this to someone going on a trip.)
- #63 Yoku dekimashita (よくできました) – Great job
- #64 Omedetou gozaimasu (おめでとうございます) – Congratulations
- #65 Tanjoubi omedetou (誕生日おめでとう) – Happy birthday
- #66 Kanpai (乾杯) – Cheers (Hint: you should really only go for this one if you actually have a drink of some sort in your hand.)
4 Types Of Japanese Goodbye
You’ve had a lot to talk about, but now the time has come to finish your Japanese conversation. How do you wrap things up?
- #67 Ja (じゃ) – Well (Hint: used in the sense of “well, I guess I’d better get going.”)
- #68 Sayounara (さようなら) – Goodbye (Hint: use only if you don’t plan on seeing them again. This is a more final “goodbye.”)
- #69 Ja, mata (じゃまた) – Well, see you (Hint: this is the much more common “goodbye.”)
- #70 Oyasumi nasai (おやすみなさい) – Good night
By the way, if you're wondering how to start a conversation with Japanese people in the first place, you'll love these 28 Japanese conversation starters.
And if you're based in Tokyo or elsewhere in Japan, but you're still looking for someone to speak to here are my 4 tips for finding a language partner in Japan.
3 Japanese Phrases To Use In Emergencies
I can’t wrap up a list of some of the most important phrases in Japanese without making sure you know a few of the words that could come in very handy. If you find yourself in serious trouble, use these phrases to call for help.
- #71 Tasukete! (助けて) – Help me!
- #72 Keisatsu o yonde kudasai! (警察を読んで下さい) – Please call the police!
- #73 Kyuu kyuusha o yonde kudasai! (救急車を読んで下さい) – Please call an ambulance!
Hopefully you never have to use these last three. But it’s always a good thing to remember them in case you need them.
The Key To Stress-Free Japanese Conversations
If you’ve mastered even a small number of the important Japanese phrases in this article, you’ll be well on your way to holding a solid conversation with any native speaker you might happen to encounter.
In language learning, you don't need to re-invent the wheel each time you speak to someone new. Nor do you have to come up with all your answers on the spot.
Try thinking about your answers to some native speaker questions beforehand so you can find the right words (like your age, occupation, and country or language name) to describe yourself!
When you know what to expect, and you've prepared in advance, you'll find that conversations with native speakers go much more smoothly. And most importantly, you'll feel more confident about speaking in Japanese.
So, which of these phrases did you know and which ones are new to you? And when are you planning to have your first conversation with a native Japanese speaker? Let me know in the comments.
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